I keep the url to my blog right on my profile so no guy can accuse me of ‘secretly’ blogging. Not only do I have the url online, I even put a message about my latest post in that section, which means it comes up as an update, which is the best way to increase your profile views (that and changing or adding pics). I get a lot of messages from guys apologizing for their gender and having sympathy for what women have to go through in online dating. I like to think of it as a public service if I can help even one ‘man’ realize that not all attention is good attention from a woman’s point of view. I’ve had a bunch of my ‘profile stalkers’ still stalking my profile, even after I’ve blogged about them, which makes me wonder if they haven’t read my entire profile (I do believe in actually saying stuff in hopes of finding the right guy, but we see how well that’s worked out) or maybe they just don’t care, or whatever. This blog obviously proves I know very little about men. I did have one guy email me to try and explain why he had sent me five messages when I didn’t respond to any…but at least he’s stopped checking my profile and messaging me.
So here was one of the messages I listed in my last post ‘My inbox-part 3’
Jun 29, 2013 – 12:58pm
dam you look good!!!!!!
26% Enemy 52% Friend 55% Match Message from jimbo220221
If only he had properly spelled damn, I just might have responded…so close
So no, it wasn’t cause you ‘misspell’ a word. I’m sure your profile is full of red flags, but I didn’t even make it that far (although after seeing messages 2 and 3, I can add inappropriate use of !!!! and ….). Maybe if you think really long and hard (ha ha, I said long and hard) you can figure out where your approach went off course. If thinking isn’t your thing, read a few of my blog posts and see if you can ascertain test number I use in online dating